DIALOGUE

"What would I like to get accomplished this week? HDIFAMA?"

"Am I satisfied with my life? (What would I change? What wouldn't I change?) HDIFAM answer(s)?"

"HDIF when you are sick and all of the family responsibilities fall on me?"

"What expectations do I have for my/our Retrouvaille involvement? Are they being met? HDIFAMA?"

"What expectations do I have of my family?"

"What expectations do I have of your family?"

"What expectations do I have of our family?"

"What expectations do I have of our children?"

"What expectations do I have concerning our finances? Are they being met? HDIFAMAs?"

"What are my expectations concerning our love making? Are they being met? Hdifama?"

"What expectations do I have of my/your job? Are they being met? HDIFAMAs?"

"What expectations of myself do I have? Do I live up to them, or not? HDIFAMA?"

"What expectations do I have of you? Are my expectations being met? HDIFsharing this with you?"

priest/religious questions:
"What expectations do I have concerning my parish, diocese, church, synagogue, house, etc. finances? Are they being met? HDIFAMA?"

"What are my expectations concerning celebrating mass, services, etc.? Are they being met? HDIFAMA?"

"What expectations do I have of my people? Are my expectations being met? HDIFAMA?"

"What expectations do I have for my/our Retrouvaille involvement? Are they being met? HDIFAMA?"

"What expectations do I have of my family?"

"What expectations do I have of your family?"

"What expectations do I have of our family?"

"What expectations do I have of our children?"

"What expectations do I have concerning our finances? Are they being met? HDIFAMA?"

"What are my expectations concerning our love making?" Are they being met? HHDIFAMA?"

"What expectations do I have of my/your job? Are they being met? HDIFAMA?"

"What expectations of myself do I have? Do I live up to them, or not? HDIFAMA?"

"What expectations do I have of you? Are my expectations being met? HDIF sharing this with you?"

priest/religious questions:
"What expectations do I have concerning my parish, diocese, church, synagogue, house, etc. finances? Are they being met? HDIFAMA??

"What are my expectations concerning celebrating mass, services, etc.? Are they being met? HDIFAMA?"

"What expectations do I have of my people? Are my expectations being met? HDIFAMA?"

"What expectations do I have for my/our Retrouvaille involvement? Are they being met? HDIFAMA?

"What expectations do I have concerning our finances? Are they being met? How do I feel about my answers? What are my expectations concerning our love making? Are they being met? HDIFAMA?"

"What expectations do I have of my/your job? Are they being met? HDIFAMA?"

"What expectations of myself do I have? Do I live up to them, or not? HDIFAMA?"

"What expectations do I have of you? Are my expectations being met? HDIF sharing this with you?"

priest/religious questions (3):
"What expectations do I have concerning my parish, diocese, church, synagogue, house, etc. finances? Are they being met? HDIFAMA?"

"What are my expectations concerning celebrating mass, services, etc.? Are they being met? HDIFAMA?"

"What expectations do I have of my people? Are my expectations being met? HDIFAMA?"

"What expectations do I have of God? Are they being met? HDIFAMA?"

"What expectation(s) of mine was not met this last week? HDIFAMA?"

"What expectations do I have for Valentine's day? HDIFA sharing this with you?"

"How do I feel when you do not share your plans with me? Describe in loving detail."

priest/religious question:
"How do I feel when my superior does not share their plans with me? Describe in loving detail."

"Where would I like to be next year at this time? HDIFAMA?"

"How do I feel when I realize that I am not who you thought me to be? Describe in loving detail."

"What goal would I like to achive in the next few months? HDIFAMA?"

"How do I feel when I judge I let you/others down? Describe in loving detail."

"Do we have a role to fulfill in other couples' relationships? HDIFAMA?"

priest/religious question:
"Do I have a role to fulfill in couples relationships? HDIFAMA?"

priest/religious question:
"How do I feel when I realize that I am not what my people thought me to be? Describe in loving detail."

"What does the New Year mean to me? HDIFAMA?"

"Even though you might not expect it, what changes do I need to make in my behavior that will help me grow closer to you?" HDMAMMF?"

"Do my selfish desires create obstacles in our relationship? HDIFAMA?"

priest/religious question:
"Do my selfish desires create obstacle in my relationships with my people? HDIFAMA?"

"Do my personal goals conflict with our goals? HDIFAMA?"

priest/religious question:
"Do my personal goals conflict with the goals of my people? HDIFAMA?"

"How do I feel when you tell me, 'We'll see,' and I think you really mean, 'No'? DILD."

priest/religious question:
"How do I feel when one of my people tells me, 'We'll see,' and I think they really mean, 'No'? DILD."

"What goals would I like us to achieve this month? HDIFAT?"

"What are my hopes for our future together? HDIFAMA?"

"What was my loneliest time this past week? HDIFTYT?"

"HDIF when you expect more of me than I am capable of giving right now?"

"Would I feel better keeping weekends relatively unplanned?"

"Why did we join a support group? HDIFAT now?"

"Do I accept your ambitions? Do I think you accept mine? HDIFAT?"

"HDIF when my plans run off the track?"

"How can we live a simple and more fulfilling life? HDIFTYT?"

"HDIF when I fail to accomplish something I set out to do?"

"What would I like to accomplish this summer?"

"When others expect a lot from me, I feel ______ and tend to ______ . HDTMMF?"