DIALOGUE

"What values of mine differ from yours? How does this effect our relationship? HDIFAMA?"

priest/religious question::
"What values of mine differ from my people? How does this effect my relationship with them? HDIFAMA?"

"What are three values I have? What are three values I think you have? What are three valus we share together

"What does the way I spend my time tell me about my values? Am I spendig my time on what I vaule the most? HDIFAT?"

"What is the most important value I have? HDIF sharing this with you?"

"Are the activities our child(ren) involved in an ideal for me or a value? HDIFAT?"

"What values, goals, or ideals will I absolutlely not compromise? HDIFAMA?"

"Do I make other things more important than you? What? HDIFAMA?"

priest/religious question::
"Do I make other things more important than my people? What? HDIFAMA?"

priest/religious question::
"HDIF about putting you first when our children are so demanding?"

"Here is my description of the ideal father _____ . HDIFTYT?"